Dressing For Pleasure has been a fixture in the BDSM and alternative lifestyle communities since 1987. We are a major retailer of bondage equipment, fetish wear, leather, latex, corsets, shoes and boots, lingerie, and everything else you might need for your BDSM pursuits. Our famous gallery includes sex toys, restraints, collars, clamps, harnesses, paddles, whips, floggers, handcuffs, medical supplies, electrical play (violet wand and TENS units), furniture and more. Our Montclair, NJ store stocks thousands of items that aren’t yet shown on our website – please stop by if you’re in the area.

We welcome all kinks and fetishes including AB, CD/TS/TV, maledom, femdom and even vanilla. We also offer play parties open to all, where you can meet new people, socialize, play or just watch. Our private dungeon facility includes a medical suite, interrogation cell, rack, St. Andrew’s cross, stocks, a locking jail cell, spanking bench, bondage horse and more. DFP even hosts lifestyle and BDSM educational seminars.

We aren’t just a store – we’re a central part of the BDSM/alternative lifestyle.

If you're looking for bondage gear, bdsm equipment, fetish wear or kinky sex toys, Dressing For Pleasure is one of the oldest and most trusted sources for bondage and bdsm gear as well as adult sex toys and fetish equipment. We offer bondage gear designed for both amateurs and experienced players, and all sexual orientations. Our bondage equipment can be used for male bondage, female bondage, gay bondage, lesbian bondage, cross dressing, transgender, or simply bondage fetishists.

At Dressing For Pleasure, we don't care what your sexual orientation or sexual preference is and neither do our huge collection of sex toys. We have all kinds of kinky adult sex toys and we are adding more top rated sex toys, high quality bondage gear, extreme restraints and strict bdsm gear everyday. You will also find discount bondage and sex toys and inexpensive bdsm gear in our specials section every month. So when you’re looking for sex gear for your bondage and discipline (b/d) play, dominance and submission (D/s) activity or sadomasochism (S&M) fun, Dressing For Pleasure is the online bdsm store and bondage shop that can supply you with all the bondage supplies, s/m equipment and sex toys you need to make any occasion an exciting, satisfying and intimate time.